Suck It Up

Many people may disagree with this post and that's OK, I still think I'm right! You are going to read a lot of stuff you disagree with in this blog, you don't need to agree with everything. What I want for you is to simply jog your memory to take action on your relationship a few times a week.

Does your partner do (or not do) something that annoys you on a regular basis? Or sometimes on a one-off basis? I want you to ask yourself, will I die, will I be injured, will someone else die or be injured? If you answer no to all of the above ask yourself this, could their action(s) bring financial ruin to us or anyone else? If you answer no to all of the above then ask yourself, is there something morally or ethically wrong with what is happening or not happening? If you answered no to that as well then this is what you should do. 

You should suck it up. Either ignore it or fix it for them. Yes, over and over again because you love them. For goodness sake. Please. Don't be a nag, especially you men out there. Do they track mud into the house all the time? Then wipe it up every time, get a shoe scraper or floor mat, or learn to love mud!

Look. On your death bed these things will not be important. But the care and patience you demonstrated will. And it will not go unnoticed by your partner or people in general. And by limiting your push to make them bend to your will you will allow room for an abundance of grace and positive energy in areas you really do need it.

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